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In Everyday Dilemmas, Dr Leslie Cannold uses her ethical training to help solve your problems. Send your questions to letters@crikey.com.au with “Dear Leslie” in the subject line. She might even reply…

Dear Leslie, 

I’m donor-conceived. When I turned 18, my parents gave me the details of the sperm donor so I could contact him if I wanted. They said I don’t have to do it and I don’t know if I want to right now. Is that stupid?