No one loves weddings more than ethnics. My Big Fat Greek Wedding, the wedding scene in The Family Law and the newly minted hit Ali’s Wedding could all take on Muriel’s Wedding any day for matrimonial obsession.

So it’s no surprise then that migrant, non English-speaking and non-Anglo voters, especially older ones, who are usually ignored by every side of politics, are suddenly at the beating heart of the same-sex marriage debate, whether they want to be or not.

Take me to your leader

Part of this obsession comes from research released last month that found migrants of non-English-speaking background to be a group with relatively low support for same-sex rights (49.9%).

The research would have thrilled Dr Pansy Lai, chief of the Australian Chinese for Families Association. Lai, who appeared in the No campaign’s video advertisement is known for her broad sweeping statements.

“Chinese parents are telling me that they are fearful for what it means,” she told the ABC.

Earlier in the year Lai said: “We want to give a voice to the Australian Chinese community who are concerned about parents’ rights and freedom of speech being taken away.”

But does Lai really represent the silent majority of Chinese-Australians?

Sydney Yes vote activist Su-Min Lim says Chinese Australians are like any other ethnic group, including Anglo Celtics, in that there is some hostility to same-sex rights but also ambivalence. He also says many younger Chinese Australians wouldn’t even consider it a question, especially after Taiwan has legalised marriage equality.

[Religious zealots (like Abbott) who oppose same-sex marriage are trying to impose sharia law]

“It’s convenient for groups like the Australian Chinese For Families (for example) to claim that they are representative of Chinese people here and for media outlets to swallow this lie whole,” he said.

“It’s easy for journalists to beam out a signal saying ‘Asians, take me to your leader’. Much harder to reduce the nearly irreducible complexity of many, many different individuals and groups into a headline.”

He credits evangelical and fundamental Christianity as the majority of the No vote’s target, who he believes take a more literal reading of the Bible.

“A particular subset are definitely being targeted in the No campaign. There are Mandarin language leaflets going round equating same sex-marriage to rape.”

Broad spread

Muslim Australians have also drawn criticism from both sides, with the focus on religious leaders who are opposed to homosexuality in all its forms.

Media from the ABC to The Australian have quoted Muslim leaders either stepping back from the debate for political neutrality or taking a strong No position.  

However, as multi-faith Yes campaigner Mohamed Elrafihi told Crikey, it’s unfair for anyone to claim Muslims are unified against marriage equality.

“If anyone is out there saying Muslims are against same-sex marriage, they’re wrong. I’m a Muslim and I’m involved, and I’m not alone.”

[How the Yes campaign is being co-opted for selling undies, not solidarity]

Elrafihi is working in a group with Christians, Jews, Hindus and people from many ethnic groups to help the Yes campaign.

The work is in line with the Australian Council of Hindu Clergy announcing its support of marriage equality, citing Hindu texts that say “may all beings be happy, may all beings achieve their own good, may none experience suffering”.

Their flyers will be in Chinese, Hindi, Arabic, Turkish, Vietnamese and other languages with an emphasis on the human rights argument. 

The suicide rate in ethnic communities for LGBTIQ youth is much higher than in rest of society, and we need to raise awareness about that,” Elrafihi said.

“All these communities are having conversations among themselves, we are diverse in our views.”

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Peter Fray
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